By Samantha Marcham Published: 12:20 BST, 15 August 2024 | Updated: 13:40 BST, 15 August 2024 503 View comments Porn is a growing addiction crisis – I should know I work as a counsellor at a boys’ boarding school.Gay porno Some of the stories I hear when dealing with young people are unspeakable. But I can say that a worrying proportion of teenage boys spend hours every day looking at content so explicit it would make anyone blush. This, perhaps, is not too surprising. After all, when have teenagers not been hormonal monsters? Porn is now the second most common addiction in the UK after alcohol, according to Britain’s biggest rehab provider, the UK Addiction Treatment Group However, I also run my own psychotherapy practice for adults and since setting up my business, a new phenomenon has shocked me even more: A horrifying number of married men are hooked on internet porn. Research suggests that, since the Covid pandemic, the number of people – almost entirely men – seeking help for porn addiction has trebled, according to the UK Addiction Treatment Group, Britain’s biggest rehab provider. According to the organisation, porn is now the second most common addiction in the UK, after alcohol. I’ve seen this for myself. Generally, the first time a woman will realise there is an issue is when she catches sight of porn on their partner’s phone or laptop. Understandably, this can lead to feeling of anger and disbelief. Many women worry that it must be a reflection of themselves: that they are not attractive enough, not sexy enough – that they are not good enough. Week after week, distraught women sit in my therapy room, sobbing profusely, and tell me how they discovered their partner had not only been watching porn every day, but that he had been doing this on family holidays, birthdays, and even on their wedding anniversary. Therapist Samantha Marcham says often the first time a woman will realise there is an issue is when she catches sight of porn on their partner’s phone or laptop But the case that surprised even me, was the man who had slipped away to watch porn on five separate occasions during his own son’s wedding day! It’s important to say that having a porn problem does not mean someone is a bad person, nor a bad partner. Just like with alcohol and drug abuse, it is a condition that requires treatment. It certainly doesn’t mean that a husband doesn’t love his wife. However, porn addiction can have serious consequences if it is not treated. One of the most common issues is that many men who regularly watch porn struggle to perform during sex. Another is that men may start acting out violent fantasies, such as attempting to choke or hit their partner. One of the most worrying consequences of a porn problem is that it puts men at risk of ‘sextortion’, a crime that is on the increase in the UK. One of my clients, a professional man in his 50s, arrived at my clinic in a state of sheer panic after his porn habit spiralled into him paying to use chatlines and sexting other women – or so he thought. One of these ‘women’, turned out to be an Eastern European criminal gang who then demanded money. When he refused, they threatened to come to his home that evening to pick up the cash, or they would tell his wife and his children. After I had managed to calm him down, he went home and did the sensible thing and confessed everything to his wife. Together, they called the police. Ultimately, the key to tackling a porn addiction problem is catching and treating it early. Many men will deny they have an issue for far too long. This is why, sometimes, it’s up to their wife or partner to stage an intervention. So, with that in mind, here are some of the signs that your husband has a porn addiction… One of the first signs of a porn problem is when a husband suddenly wants less sex. Of course, in a long-term relationship, it is common for desire to come-and-go. Research suggests that women are more likely to experience a low sex drive, especially after having children or during menopause. As a result, many men turn to porn because they feel ‘over-sexed’ compared to their partner and want to let off steam. There is nothing wrong with this – masturbation is a normal habit for both genders. However, if, seemingly out of nowhere, your husband’s sex drive drops off, this may suggest he is masturbating to porn too much. I often hear from women who say the first time they noticed any issue was when they instigated sex with their partner and he struggled to gain, or maintain, an erection. This is also a sign that he may be getting his sexual fix online. There’s even a medical name for this problem – porn-induced erectile dysfunction. However, this may also be a sign of standard erectile dysfunction, which affects roughly one in four adult men – primarily those over the age of 50. For this reason, it is important to look for other signs of porn addiction as well. When a man becomes cagey about his wife looking at his phone, one of the most likely reasons is that he is regularly using it to view porn. Historically, this has been seen as a possible sign of an affair – but frankly, I can tell you it’s much more likely to be explicit pictures and videos. Mobile phones are the main way people consume porn these days and, moreover, the internet has provided a seemingly infinite number of ways to consume content designed to arouse. Along with the obvious websites such as Pornhub, the most common places online where porn can be found include the social media sites Reddit and Twitter, as well as the subscriber app OnlyFans (more on that below). Male clients even tell me that they even resort to watching soft-core videos on TikTok and YouTube – where nudity isn’t allowed. While Google search history can be hidden by going ‘incognito’ (opening up a private browser), searches on Reddit, Twitter, TikTok, and YouTube generally cannot. Moreover, all these apps now use sophisticated software that show users content based on what they have previously viewed. This means that, if a regular porn watcher opens up Reddit or TikTok, for example, the first thing that appears is likely to be explicit or suggestive content. For this reason, look out for your husband turning his phone screen away from you whenever he uses it. Or, even more telling, he jumps like a madman to intercept you if you go to pick his mobile up. If you know his password already, then be suspicious if he changes it without explanation. This, to me, is by far the most common sign of a problem – men who are addicted to porn will almost always lock themselves away in the bathroom. In a family home – especially one with children – this may be the only place of any privacy. So it makes sense that a man attempting to hide his reliance on porn will take frequent, lengthy trips there. This might involve running the shower for ten minutes or more but spending the majority of time sitting on the loo staring at his phone. Keep an eye on how often your husband takes his phone with him to the bathroom. He may even bring headphones with him, too. If he does this, gently ask him why he needs his phone. An overly defensive or aggressive response may signal trouble. Strangely, another warning sign of porn addiction I come across regularly is men buying their partner racy lingerie Men who watch too much porn will often try to re-enact what they see on the screen in real life – which can often lead to uncomfortable situations. It’s easy to see why this happens. For many men, porn is a fantastical escape. It allows them to imagine a sex life which is more adventurous and vigorous than it actually is. It’s not surprising that some attempt to turn fantasy into reality. This might involve acts which their partners find shocking, such as choking and hitting. However, the most common change in behaviour I see is a sudden desire for bl*****s. It’s probably due to the fact that every single porn film involves oral sex. It’s depicted as a normal part of sex. In reality, studies show that less than a third of young women say they enjoy performing oral sex, and older women are even less keen on it. Strangely, another warning sign of porn addiction I come across regularly is men buying their partner racy lingerie. They get so used to seeing these revealing – and uncomfortable – outfits in porn that they want to see their wives wearing them too. Until recently, it seemed like the days of paying for porn was in the past. Gone were the days of sleazy video rentals or pay-per-view channels, it was all online for free. But, now paying for porn is back and it’s ruining marriages. This is almost entirely thanks to OnlyFans, the subscriber porn app which is used by around 12 million people in the UK. It allows customers – nine out of ten are men – to pay a monthly subscription to a single porn actor, who posts regular explicit content only available to their ‘fans’. It’s a fascinating business, some women make more than £1million every year via OnlyFans, but it’s a massive factor in the rise of porn addiction in the UK. According to the UK Addiction Treatment Group, OnlyFans is one of the most common triggers of porn addiction in the patients they see. This is largely due to the phenomenon psychologists call ‘parasocial’ relationships. This is where someone builds a one-sided relationship with a social media personality online. They adore this person, and begin to feel like they know them personally, even though this famous figure doesn’t know who they are. It’s often seen in young women who become besotted with musicians like Taylor Swift or Harry Styles. But with OnlyFans it takes on a much darker form. Some even argue that a married man who uses the app is cheating on his partner. I’m not sure I agree, but I don’t think it’s healthy either. The good news is that it’s easy to spot if your partner is dim enough to use your joint account to buy an OnlyFans membership. These usually cost around £10-a-month, and it will show up on the bill as ‘OnlyFans’. So, if your partner suddenly decides he wants to get a new debit card, or you see him inputting his card details into his phone, but he won’t tell you why, it could be due to an OnlyFans account. Your relationship might have become strained or stale due to the malign effects of porn. You might be plodding along, not making the most of life, or each other Spotting the signs of porn addiction isn’t a case of catching a partner out, it’s about helping them. The good news is that a compulsion for pornography can be fixed. And it certainly doesn’t mean the end of a relationship. In fact, although it might feel crushing to discover your partner has a problem, it can turn out to be a blessing in disguise. Your relationship might have become strained or stale. You might be plodding along, not making the most of life, or each other. This could be the wake-up call that is needed for both of you. So, should you suspect your partner has a problem, who can you do about it? Talk to them. Ask them if they could subconsciously be using porn as a crutch. Check if there is something he is worried about – work, finances, or the kids. A porn problem can often come as a result of stress. Addressing the topic might come as a relief to him. Keeping a secret can make a person feel they are very alone. But it’s important to approach it without appearing angry or judgmental. Talk to your partner about using healthier crutches instead, like exercise. Even better, find something you can do together – get a couple’s membership at the local gym, or make time to go for long walks together. And, if you are a man reading this who recognises you might have a porn problem that is getting out of a control, show this article to your partner. She might be taken aback, but she will appreciate the honesty. If you don’t feel you are able, or if you don’t have a partner, then you can talk to a counsellor confidentially. There is a list of reputable therapists on the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) website. Couples therapy can also make a relationship better than it ever was. Samantha Marcham is a psychotherapeutic counsellor. Her book Porn Bomb, co-written with her son Maximillian, offers advice to young people about pornography. Published by Associated Newspapers Ltd Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group

By Melissa Koenig For Dailymail.Com Published: 01:00 BST, 9 July 2024 | Updated: 03:26 BST, 9 July 2024 429 View comments Porn star Jesse Jane’s cause of death has finally been revealed more than six months after she was found unconscious alongside her boyfriend.Gay porno The 43-year-old adult film star, whose real name is Cindy Taylor, and her partner, Brett Hasenmueller, were found dead by authorities in late January after police were called to their address in the city of Moore, Oklahoma for a welfare check. Officers said at the time Hasenmuller had not appeared at work for several days when they entered the residence and found them both dead. It has since been revealed that both Jane and her boyfriend of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose – with the Office of Chief Medical Examiner for Oklahoma noting that her body was already decomposing when it was found, according to the Oklahoman. A full report is expected to be released on July 17. Adult film actress Jesse Jane died of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose A native of Fort Worth, Texas, Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge.  TMZ reported that the movies cost around $8 million to produce, and are considered the most expensive adult films to date.  This exposure launched her into stardom, appearing on the cover of magazines including FHM, Maxim, and Front.  Her success saw her make an appearance in the TV show Entourage alongside the likes of Kevin Connolly and Adrian Grenier.  Jane would later make her way to Playboy, and worked on their popular live show called ‘Night Calls,’ and hosted their ‘Naughty Amateur Home Videos.’  Her work in the industry saw her inducted into the AVN and XRCO Hall of Fame.  ‘I got into porn at the perfect time, when porn stars mattered,’ she told GQ in 2018.  ‘Everybody knew who you were because they actually had to buy your product or DVDs, everything,’ Jane explained.  ‘Porn was so naughty, but everybody watched it.’  Police in Oklahoma were called to a residence after colleagues reported that her boyfriend, Brett Hasenmueller, had not appeared at work for several days Jane was married to fellow porn actor Rick Patrick for seven years, but the couple divorced in 2012. Several years later, in 2020, Jane was arrested for allegedly attacking her then boyfriend during an alcohol-fueled couple’s quarrel.  The star was booked into Cleveland County Jail on a charge of domestic violence following the alleged incident.  Police who responded to the couple’s home that morning were met in the driveway by the porn star’s boyfriend, who was nursing a bloody left eye and had bite marks on his left hand.  When interviewed by police, Jane reportedly offered a different version of events, claiming that her boyfriend picked her up by the neck and hurled her against the wall.  She is now survived by one son.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane following her unexpected death in January (Gunn and Jane pictured together on September 12, 2005 at the Egyptian Theatre in Hollywood, California)  As the news spread of her unexpected death, tributes poured in for the adult film star from others in the industry.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane, with whom he had co-starred in multiple films including Pirates. Taking to X, he shared an image of the two together saying he was ‘grateful to have been graced’ by her presence.  Gunn also touched on how he saw her passing as being the end of the ‘golden days’ of the adult movie industry.   He said: ‘I’m at a loss for words about the news of Jesse Jane’s passing, we started the same year in 2004.  ‘She possessed an energy about herself that was just unmatchable, she was such a wonderful person and always made me smile and feel loved, you could always feel her presence the moment she walked in the room.  ‘We worked together numerous times and in fact made some of the biggest movies this business and the world will ever see.  ‘This news brings a bit of sign that the golden days of the industry are over most certainly over. ‘I’m so happy and grateful to have been part of a time where there was a feeling of family and camaraderie. Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge ‘Rest in Power Angel, I’m grateful to have been graced by your presence. And to ALL of the other wonderful people we have lost along the way, You are not forgotten. I love you!’ Alana Evans, president of the Adult Performance Artists Guild (APAG), also told Rolling Stone: ‘Jesse was a mega star. She was discovered at Hawaiian Tropics contest.  ‘Even though she quickly became a porn sensation, it didn’t go to her head. She was as sweet as could be.  ‘I remember tearing the movie premiere for, I wasn’t in the cast, but she snuck me into the VIP balcony with the cast, so I could watch the movie with her up there.  ‘It was the first time any of us had seen anything like that on a big screen, and I remember how proud she was.’ Meanwhile, adult movie director Joone, who directed the Pirates films starring Jane, said on X: ‘I am heartbroken by the loss of my friend, Jesse Jane, who was a remarkable person and a phenomenal artist.  ‘She touched so many lives with her grace and beauty, her infectious laugh and a smile that lit up the world. I’m honored to have known her and to have been her friend.’ Tributes were also made on social media for Hasenmueller. One person shared a picture of him, saying: ‘Damn I’m at such a loss of words my heart aches for you my friend Brett D. Hasenmueller. ‘You were such a good guy and had such an amazing soul you were not just my friend you were my brother you were my family. ‘I could always count on you if I needed anything or just needed a friend to shoot the s**t with or when we would see each other out and about we would catch up about life and see when and where the next time. ‘Love you bro rest in peace until we see each other again.’ Another said: ‘Brett D. Hasenmueller embodied unwavering support, with a heart of gold that touched everyone. ‘Always ready with a smile, a comforting hug, and a collection of dad jokes. Here’s a reminder to hug those you love today, because tomorrow isn’t promised. ‘Farewell, Brett, may you rest in peace, a cherished friend.’ Published by Associated Newspapers Ltd Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group

By Melissa Koenig For Dailymail.Com Published: 01:00 BST, 9 July 2024 | Updated: 03:26 BST, 9 July 2024 429 View comments Porn star Jesse Jane’s cause of death has finally been revealed more than six months after she was found unconscious alongside her boyfriend.Gay porno The 43-year-old adult film star, whose real name is Cindy Taylor, and her partner, Brett Hasenmueller, were found dead by authorities in late January after police were called to their address in the city of Moore, Oklahoma for a welfare check. Officers said at the time Hasenmuller had not appeared at work for several days when they entered the residence and found them both dead. It has since been revealed that both Jane and her boyfriend of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose – with the Office of Chief Medical Examiner for Oklahoma noting that her body was already decomposing when it was found, according to the Oklahoman. A full report is expected to be released on July 17. Adult film actress Jesse Jane died of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose A native of Fort Worth, Texas, Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge.  TMZ reported that the movies cost around $8 million to produce, and are considered the most expensive adult films to date.  This exposure launched her into stardom, appearing on the cover of magazines including FHM, Maxim, and Front.  Her success saw her make an appearance in the TV show Entourage alongside the likes of Kevin Connolly and Adrian Grenier.  Jane would later make her way to Playboy, and worked on their popular live show called ‘Night Calls,’ and hosted their ‘Naughty Amateur Home Videos.’  Her work in the industry saw her inducted into the AVN and XRCO Hall of Fame.  ‘I got into porn at the perfect time, when porn stars mattered,’ she told GQ in 2018.  ‘Everybody knew who you were because they actually had to buy your product or DVDs, everything,’ Jane explained.  ‘Porn was so naughty, but everybody watched it.’  Police in Oklahoma were called to a residence after colleagues reported that her boyfriend, Brett Hasenmueller, had not appeared at work for several days Jane was married to fellow porn actor Rick Patrick for seven years, but the couple divorced in 2012. Several years later, in 2020, Jane was arrested for allegedly attacking her then boyfriend during an alcohol-fueled couple’s quarrel.  The star was booked into Cleveland County Jail on a charge of domestic violence following the alleged incident.  Police who responded to the couple’s home that morning were met in the driveway by the porn star’s boyfriend, who was nursing a bloody left eye and had bite marks on his left hand.  When interviewed by police, Jane reportedly offered a different version of events, claiming that her boyfriend picked her up by the neck and hurled her against the wall.  She is now survived by one son.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane following her unexpected death in January (Gunn and Jane pictured together on September 12, 2005 at the Egyptian Theatre in Hollywood, California)  As the news spread of her unexpected death, tributes poured in for the adult film star from others in the industry.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane, with whom he had co-starred in multiple films including Pirates. Taking to X, he shared an image of the two together saying he was ‘grateful to have been graced’ by her presence.  Gunn also touched on how he saw her passing as being the end of the ‘golden days’ of the adult movie industry.   He said: ‘I’m at a loss for words about the news of Jesse Jane’s passing, we started the same year in 2004.  ‘She possessed an energy about herself that was just unmatchable, she was such a wonderful person and always made me smile and feel loved, you could always feel her presence the moment she walked in the room.  ‘We worked together numerous times and in fact made some of the biggest movies this business and the world will ever see.  ‘This news brings a bit of sign that the golden days of the industry are over most certainly over. ‘I’m so happy and grateful to have been part of a time where there was a feeling of family and camaraderie. Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge ‘Rest in Power Angel, I’m grateful to have been graced by your presence. And to ALL of the other wonderful people we have lost along the way, You are not forgotten. I love you!’ Alana Evans, president of the Adult Performance Artists Guild (APAG), also told Rolling Stone: ‘Jesse was a mega star. She was discovered at Hawaiian Tropics contest.  ‘Even though she quickly became a porn sensation, it didn’t go to her head. She was as sweet as could be.  ‘I remember tearing the movie premiere for, I wasn’t in the cast, but she snuck me into the VIP balcony with the cast, so I could watch the movie with her up there.  ‘It was the first time any of us had seen anything like that on a big screen, and I remember how proud she was.’ Meanwhile, adult movie director Joone, who directed the Pirates films starring Jane, said on X: ‘I am heartbroken by the loss of my friend, Jesse Jane, who was a remarkable person and a phenomenal artist.  ‘She touched so many lives with her grace and beauty, her infectious laugh and a smile that lit up the world. I’m honored to have known her and to have been her friend.’ Tributes were also made on social media for Hasenmueller. One person shared a picture of him, saying: ‘Damn I’m at such a loss of words my heart aches for you my friend Brett D. Hasenmueller. ‘You were such a good guy and had such an amazing soul you were not just my friend you were my brother you were my family. ‘I could always count on you if I needed anything or just needed a friend to shoot the s**t with or when we would see each other out and about we would catch up about life and see when and where the next time. ‘Love you bro rest in peace until we see each other again.’ Another said: ‘Brett D. Hasenmueller embodied unwavering support, with a heart of gold that touched everyone. ‘Always ready with a smile, a comforting hug, and a collection of dad jokes. Here’s a reminder to hug those you love today, because tomorrow isn’t promised. ‘Farewell, Brett, may you rest in peace, a cherished friend.’ Published by Associated Newspapers Ltd Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group

By Melissa Koenig For Dailymail.Com Published: 01:00 BST, 9 July 2024 | Updated: 03:26 BST, 9 July 2024 429 View comments Porn star Jesse Jane’s cause of death has finally been revealed more than six months after she was found unconscious alongside her boyfriend.Gay porno The 43-year-old adult film star, whose real name is Cindy Taylor, and her partner, Brett Hasenmueller, were found dead by authorities in late January after police were called to their address in the city of Moore, Oklahoma for a welfare check. Officers said at the time Hasenmuller had not appeared at work for several days when they entered the residence and found them both dead. It has since been revealed that both Jane and her boyfriend of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose – with the Office of Chief Medical Examiner for Oklahoma noting that her body was already decomposing when it was found, according to the Oklahoman. A full report is expected to be released on July 17. Adult film actress Jesse Jane died of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose A native of Fort Worth, Texas, Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge.  TMZ reported that the movies cost around $8 million to produce, and are considered the most expensive adult films to date.  This exposure launched her into stardom, appearing on the cover of magazines including FHM, Maxim, and Front.  Her success saw her make an appearance in the TV show Entourage alongside the likes of Kevin Connolly and Adrian Grenier.  Jane would later make her way to Playboy, and worked on their popular live show called ‘Night Calls,’ and hosted their ‘Naughty Amateur Home Videos.’  Her work in the industry saw her inducted into the AVN and XRCO Hall of Fame.  ‘I got into porn at the perfect time, when porn stars mattered,’ she told GQ in 2018.  ‘Everybody knew who you were because they actually had to buy your product or DVDs, everything,’ Jane explained.  ‘Porn was so naughty, but everybody watched it.’  Police in Oklahoma were called to a residence after colleagues reported that her boyfriend, Brett Hasenmueller, had not appeared at work for several days Jane was married to fellow porn actor Rick Patrick for seven years, but the couple divorced in 2012. Several years later, in 2020, Jane was arrested for allegedly attacking her then boyfriend during an alcohol-fueled couple’s quarrel.  The star was booked into Cleveland County Jail on a charge of domestic violence following the alleged incident.  Police who responded to the couple’s home that morning were met in the driveway by the porn star’s boyfriend, who was nursing a bloody left eye and had bite marks on his left hand.  When interviewed by police, Jane reportedly offered a different version of events, claiming that her boyfriend picked her up by the neck and hurled her against the wall.  She is now survived by one son.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane following her unexpected death in January (Gunn and Jane pictured together on September 12, 2005 at the Egyptian Theatre in Hollywood, California)  As the news spread of her unexpected death, tributes poured in for the adult film star from others in the industry.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane, with whom he had co-starred in multiple films including Pirates. Taking to X, he shared an image of the two together saying he was ‘grateful to have been graced’ by her presence.  Gunn also touched on how he saw her passing as being the end of the ‘golden days’ of the adult movie industry.   He said: ‘I’m at a loss for words about the news of Jesse Jane’s passing, we started the same year in 2004.  ‘She possessed an energy about herself that was just unmatchable, she was such a wonderful person and always made me smile and feel loved, you could always feel her presence the moment she walked in the room.  ‘We worked together numerous times and in fact made some of the biggest movies this business and the world will ever see.  ‘This news brings a bit of sign that the golden days of the industry are over most certainly over. ‘I’m so happy and grateful to have been part of a time where there was a feeling of family and camaraderie. Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge ‘Rest in Power Angel, I’m grateful to have been graced by your presence. And to ALL of the other wonderful people we have lost along the way, You are not forgotten. I love you!’ Alana Evans, president of the Adult Performance Artists Guild (APAG), also told Rolling Stone: ‘Jesse was a mega star. She was discovered at Hawaiian Tropics contest.  ‘Even though she quickly became a porn sensation, it didn’t go to her head. She was as sweet as could be.  ‘I remember tearing the movie premiere for, I wasn’t in the cast, but she snuck me into the VIP balcony with the cast, so I could watch the movie with her up there.  ‘It was the first time any of us had seen anything like that on a big screen, and I remember how proud she was.’ Meanwhile, adult movie director Joone, who directed the Pirates films starring Jane, said on X: ‘I am heartbroken by the loss of my friend, Jesse Jane, who was a remarkable person and a phenomenal artist.  ‘She touched so many lives with her grace and beauty, her infectious laugh and a smile that lit up the world. I’m honored to have known her and to have been her friend.’ Tributes were also made on social media for Hasenmueller. One person shared a picture of him, saying: ‘Damn I’m at such a loss of words my heart aches for you my friend Brett D. Hasenmueller. ‘You were such a good guy and had such an amazing soul you were not just my friend you were my brother you were my family. ‘I could always count on you if I needed anything or just needed a friend to shoot the s**t with or when we would see each other out and about we would catch up about life and see when and where the next time. ‘Love you bro rest in peace until we see each other again.’ Another said: ‘Brett D. Hasenmueller embodied unwavering support, with a heart of gold that touched everyone. ‘Always ready with a smile, a comforting hug, and a collection of dad jokes. Here’s a reminder to hug those you love today, because tomorrow isn’t promised. ‘Farewell, Brett, may you rest in peace, a cherished friend.’ Published by Associated Newspapers Ltd Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group

By Melissa Koenig For Dailymail.Com Published: 01:00 BST, 9 July 2024 | Updated: 03:26 BST, 9 July 2024 429 View comments Porn star Jesse Jane’s cause of death has finally been revealed more than six months after she was found unconscious alongside her boyfriend.Gay porno The 43-year-old adult film star, whose real name is Cindy Taylor, and her partner, Brett Hasenmueller, were found dead by authorities in late January after police were called to their address in the city of Moore, Oklahoma for a welfare check. Officers said at the time Hasenmuller had not appeared at work for several days when they entered the residence and found them both dead. It has since been revealed that both Jane and her boyfriend of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose – with the Office of Chief Medical Examiner for Oklahoma noting that her body was already decomposing when it was found, according to the Oklahoman. A full report is expected to be released on July 17. Adult film actress Jesse Jane died of an accidental fentanyl and cocaine overdose A native of Fort Worth, Texas, Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge.  TMZ reported that the movies cost around $8 million to produce, and are considered the most expensive adult films to date.  This exposure launched her into stardom, appearing on the cover of magazines including FHM, Maxim, and Front.  Her success saw her make an appearance in the TV show Entourage alongside the likes of Kevin Connolly and Adrian Grenier.  Jane would later make her way to Playboy, and worked on their popular live show called ‘Night Calls,’ and hosted their ‘Naughty Amateur Home Videos.’  Her work in the industry saw her inducted into the AVN and XRCO Hall of Fame.  ‘I got into porn at the perfect time, when porn stars mattered,’ she told GQ in 2018.  ‘Everybody knew who you were because they actually had to buy your product or DVDs, everything,’ Jane explained.  ‘Porn was so naughty, but everybody watched it.’  Police in Oklahoma were called to a residence after colleagues reported that her boyfriend, Brett Hasenmueller, had not appeared at work for several days Jane was married to fellow porn actor Rick Patrick for seven years, but the couple divorced in 2012. Several years later, in 2020, Jane was arrested for allegedly attacking her then boyfriend during an alcohol-fueled couple’s quarrel.  The star was booked into Cleveland County Jail on a charge of domestic violence following the alleged incident.  Police who responded to the couple’s home that morning were met in the driveway by the porn star’s boyfriend, who was nursing a bloody left eye and had bite marks on his left hand.  When interviewed by police, Jane reportedly offered a different version of events, claiming that her boyfriend picked her up by the neck and hurled her against the wall.  She is now survived by one son.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane following her unexpected death in January (Gunn and Jane pictured together on September 12, 2005 at the Egyptian Theatre in Hollywood, California)  As the news spread of her unexpected death, tributes poured in for the adult film star from others in the industry.  Actor and director Tommy Gunn, whose real name is Thomas Strada, shared an emotional tribute to Jane, with whom he had co-starred in multiple films including Pirates. Taking to X, he shared an image of the two together saying he was ‘grateful to have been graced’ by her presence.  Gunn also touched on how he saw her passing as being the end of the ‘golden days’ of the adult movie industry.   He said: ‘I’m at a loss for words about the news of Jesse Jane’s passing, we started the same year in 2004.  ‘She possessed an energy about herself that was just unmatchable, she was such a wonderful person and always made me smile and feel loved, you could always feel her presence the moment she walked in the room.  ‘We worked together numerous times and in fact made some of the biggest movies this business and the world will ever see.  ‘This news brings a bit of sign that the golden days of the industry are over most certainly over. ‘I’m so happy and grateful to have been part of a time where there was a feeling of family and camaraderie. Jane signed a contract in 2002 with Digital Playground, and went on in to star in Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti’s Revenge ‘Rest in Power Angel, I’m grateful to have been graced by your presence. And to ALL of the other wonderful people we have lost along the way, You are not forgotten. I love you!’ Alana Evans, president of the Adult Performance Artists Guild (APAG), also told Rolling Stone: ‘Jesse was a mega star. She was discovered at Hawaiian Tropics contest.  ‘Even though she quickly became a porn sensation, it didn’t go to her head. She was as sweet as could be.  ‘I remember tearing the movie premiere for, I wasn’t in the cast, but she snuck me into the VIP balcony with the cast, so I could watch the movie with her up there.  ‘It was the first time any of us had seen anything like that on a big screen, and I remember how proud she was.’ Meanwhile, adult movie director Joone, who directed the Pirates films starring Jane, said on X: ‘I am heartbroken by the loss of my friend, Jesse Jane, who was a remarkable person and a phenomenal artist.  ‘She touched so many lives with her grace and beauty, her infectious laugh and a smile that lit up the world. I’m honored to have known her and to have been her friend.’ Tributes were also made on social media for Hasenmueller. One person shared a picture of him, saying: ‘Damn I’m at such a loss of words my heart aches for you my friend Brett D. Hasenmueller. ‘You were such a good guy and had such an amazing soul you were not just my friend you were my brother you were my family. ‘I could always count on you if I needed anything or just needed a friend to shoot the s**t with or when we would see each other out and about we would catch up about life and see when and where the next time. ‘Love you bro rest in peace until we see each other again.’ Another said: ‘Brett D. Hasenmueller embodied unwavering support, with a heart of gold that touched everyone. ‘Always ready with a smile, a comforting hug, and a collection of dad jokes. Here’s a reminder to hug those you love today, because tomorrow isn’t promised. ‘Farewell, Brett, may you rest in peace, a cherished friend.’ Published by Associated Newspapers Ltd Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group